How Meditation Music Changed My Life

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Welcome to my personal blog! I would like to start things off by welcoming you with a blog post about how a critical event in my life changed me for the better.

Meditation is a very important part of many peoples’ day. Being able to meditate daily helps you clear your mind and find inner peace. If you start off the day meditating, you’ll probably find that your whole day goes better. You will be able to deal with problems you have one by one and then put them aside. You’ll learn that individual issues usually aren’t as big of a deal as you are making them out to be.

Picture of man doing quantum jumping

If you meditate correctly (with the aid of brainwave entrainment music) you will get the same sensation like astral projection and quantum jumping. It’s exhilarating!

After your mediation sessions, you’ll leave happy and relaxed. If you are looking for ways to maximize your meditation sessions, you should consider incorporating music. So, how can music aid your meditation?

How Listening To Music Relaxes You

Music can aid your meditation by providing a calming atmosphere. When most people first start meditating, they find it hard to calm down enough to actually clear their mind. One of the reasons that people find it hard to calm down is because they aren’t in a relaxing environment. If you have screaming children or barking dogs in the room next door, you won’t be able to calm your mind down. The whole time, you’ll be wondering what is going on next door. You need to make sure that before you start meditating you have taken care of all potential problems. :) Check out this video on how Oprah meditates and achieve inner peace during an interview with Dr Oz. Alternatively, read this to fully appreciate the power of brainwave entrainment and meditation music.

If you have tried taking care of any potential disturbance, it is time to see if music can help provide a more inviting atmosphere. There are many CDs available that are made specifically for meditation purposes. The purpose of these CDs is to calm your mind down. Before you can get to the main concept of meditation, you need to make sure that you aren’t thinking about one hundred different things at once. A meditation CD can help you temporarily forget about what you are going through so that you can work through your problems one by one in a rational manner.

During meditation, music can help you focus better. Many people find that with there is calming, constant music in the background they can meditate much more effectively. One of the reasons that people can meditate better with music on in the background is because the music synchronizes with your brainwaves. When the music synchronizes with your brainwaves, you become much more in tune with your mind. This article in TIME magazine actually describes how meditation can improve concentration. It’s pretty amazing.

Do This And You’ll Thank Me Later

Since you now know how music can aid your meditation, you should go out and purchase a meditation CD. Most music stores will allow you to return a CD within a certain time period if you don’t like it. If you think that music can help you meditation more effectively or just help calm you down, you should give it a try.:)

In the end, it could be the difference between finally clearing your mind or giving up on mediation all together. There have been many scientific studies behind music and meditation, which shows that there is a purpose to the technique. If you do decide that you would like to see if music can help aid your meditation, make sure that you give it a fair trial period.

Live well, eat right, and meditate!

-Jeff

PS: If you need to get in touch with me, email jeff@chefjeffcooked.com and I will reply as quickest as I can. Thank you! :)

Hobbies You Can Share With Her

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Hi guys! So, I’ve told you about my date last month. Guess how it turned out?

Well, thanks to my extensive research about seduction, we are now officially a couple! Congratulate me! If you want to know how I did it, read this blog post. You’d thank me soon.

Now, how to keep the love alive?

Boredom is known for its really bad effect on relationships. Seeing couples break up because of boredom is nothing new. They have become too familiar with each other and they feel like they’ve probably done anything couples could do together that there’s nothing left to do. This is very much true for long term relationships.

And so they look at each other face blank, clueless, as to what better thing to do with each other. And when they could not find any, they end up in boredom – boredom that breeds disinterest, tiredness in the relationship, and heaven forbid, break up.

But that’s just not how it should be! There are couples who have found a way to stay together even after the romance has died down a bit. They found hobbies to keep them busily doing something together – not out of obligation, but out of fun!

Here are some fun, fun, fun hobbies that you men could share with your ladies!

Tennis is a great couple sport. You even get "love" when you miss a shot. ;)

Tennis is a great couple sport. You even get “love” when you miss a shot. ;)

Sports – engage in sports together. There are tons of sports that can help you both get fit while keeping your relationship healthy. You can practically do anything from swimming to biking to tennis.

Workout – the couple that stays fit together stays longer together. Consider the time you guys are spending together at the gym as another chance to bond. You can help keep each other motivated at achieving your goal while and keeping your relationship tight while at it. Oh, and who does not love sharing showers after a long hot session at the gym? There are a number of couple workouts that you should check out.

Arts and crafts – ahh but of course. You’ll never go wrong with arts and crafts. If you are not too comfortable with some yarn and needles, perhaps you guys can do something complimentary. Say, you build a table in the shed and she makes the knitted centerpiece? You can also do clay pottery a la Ghost, painting, T-Shirt painting, tie dyeing, or mini polymer clay toys.

Travel – when you’re low on budget, you can start on short trips to the mountains, some nearby national park, or the next town. Set your goals to go further every time and save for your trips together. Oh, and aim at doing something memorable (ideally romantic and fun) at the new place you’re traveling to just to make things even more interesting.

Cooking is a healthy way of bonding with your lovey!

Cooking is a healthy way of bonding with your lovey!

Cooking – Thought I’d never include this? Hah! Cooking on its own is very therapeutic. Cooking done with your partner is even more awesome. You don’t even need to enroll in some high class cooking school to enjoy this! Make this even more fun by trying out new recipes every week or challenging yourselves on weekly cook offs. I particularly love Jaimie Oliver‘s recipes. They’re simple but awesome!

Hobbies are something you do regularly. Try to set aside some time for your activities together, otherwise it will be useless. Go on, the possibilities are endless. You’ll never know what you find out about her until you spend some quality hobby time together.

The secret is finding something that you both would love doing together. Good luck and have fun!

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Some Quick Words…

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Hi, readers! I know it’s been a long time since I’ve last written in my blog. I can’t believe how busy I am these past couple of months that I simply have no time to update my blog on a regular basis. Well, here’s a glimpse of what happened to me for the last 5 weeks:

  1. I’ve been selected as a guest on this primetime culinary show! It was luck, mostly– my friend’s roommate is actually a TV producer and asked if he knows a chef who knows something about French cuisine. My name was thrown, and so– there I was, doing my thing in front of thousands of people on national TV.
  2. I got myself a chocolate Labrador Retriever. Yes, folks– I am a dog person(no offense to you feline lovers.) I named him Blake, and apparently he likes the smells that are coming out from my kitchen.
  3. I went to a seduction seminar! I think this has got to be one of the highlights of my busy weeks. I have to say that I’ve learned a lot of things, and my usual FAQ on Dating and Seduction has been answered for the most parts. The seminar shared the tips on how to attract women and make them like you, among many other things. I don’t know– I’ve yet to master these techniques, but I’d keep you updated regularly!

So tonight I have a date.. I don’t know how that one would turn out. I guess I’ve to see if I’ve learned something from that seduction seminar I’ve attended. Also gives me the chance to use these dating methods that I know would work(for me, and I’m sure it would for you, too).

More updates next time!

-Jeff :D

Need a Brain Update? Meditate!

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Dear Readers: I don’t know what’s been happening lately, but for the past couple of days, I’ve been misplacing a LOT of my things. This annoyed my friend too much, to the point of her calling me a “scatterbrain”. According to Merriam-Webster’s Learner’s Dictionary, the word “scatterbrain” is defined as a “person who is unable to concentrate or think clearly”– case in point– me. For many, there are days when everything is just in its wrong place because the ability to remember and focus is non-existent—sometimes even to the point that looking for your lost car keys may mean having to look inside the refrigerator(I hope this never happens, though.)

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Experience the power of mindfulness meditation.

If you belong to the majority of people who are unable to focus and concentrate on a daily basis, you may need to do your brain a favour and give it a quick update. The best way for you to give your good old brain all the attention it deserves is through meditation—a mental discipline that allows your mind to achieve a state of consciousness in order to achieve an indestructible sense of well-being.

Some time ago I wrote about how meditation combined with the power of music can help you achieve a balanced mind and body, today, I’m going to give you a sneak peek on how mindfulness meditation works.

The Power of Mindfulness Meditation

Meditation has been around for centuries. Modern times allowed it to progress over the years, as more and more mediators continuously enjoy its benefits. The many benefits of meditating have been researched by science, thus resulting into a lot of developments. Modern techniques even apply isochronic tones to further explore the powers of meditation. More studies have shown how meditation can affect a person’s ability to concentrate, think clearly, and become more emotionally-stable and be compassionate.

Ancient Buddhist meditation techniques were introduced in the United States in the late 1970s. Dr Britta Hölzel, a leading psychologist at Harvard Medical School and Massachusetts General Hospital, conducted a study that allowed its participants to practise mindfulness meditation. The aim of mindfulness meditation is to incorporate objects and use them as means to improve overall focus. Breathing techniques are used in order to improve and focus on the overall sensations both the body and the mind experience. Lastly, the technique focuses on letting the mind focus on the present—instead of letting the mind drift.

The Benefits

Now that the process of mindfulness meditation has been explained briefly, let’s explore the facts the study presented, backed up by science.

The MRI brain scans which were taken before and after the study showed dramatic increases in the participants’ “gray area”, specifically the hippocampus, which is linked to the brain’s ability to learn, remember, and concentrate. It also showed a decreased gray area in the amygdala—the brain’s receptors for anxiety and stress. While those who practised meditation experienced positive changes in brain activity and overall well-being, the MRI scans of those who did not showed no significant changes in the same areas.

Further studies and research have also shown how meditation can increase compassion. Back in 2008, PloS One published the result of a study that concluded how meditation increases the brain’s temporal parietal junctures levels—an area of the brain that is linked to empathy. Think of it this way—a mediator is most likely to be more affected by the sound of suffering or an image of destruction as compared to a person who does not mediate.

Clearly, practising meditation is your link to improving the overall quality of life. This being said, it’s about time to remove the term “scatterbrain” from my friend’s vocabulary—time to get some meditating done, stat.

Updated Excerpt From My Upcoming Book – “Jeff’s Guide To Successful Dating”

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Sorry for the long silence – I’ve been putting up the finishing touches to my upcoming book “Jeff’s Guide To Successful Dating”. It will hit the mainstream bookstores in May, and earlier on Amazon.com. I have also lined up a couple of interviews over TV and radio so you’ll be able to catch me on mainstream media soon enough.

For a taster, here’s a sample article from the book. Right click on this link and select download – Book Excerpt.

Remember to give me feedback – email me at jeff@chefjeffcooked.com! Also, I will be doing a book tour this summer at branches of Borders in the USA and WH Smith in the UK, so let me know if you want to come up and say hi.

Much love,

Jeff

Jeff’s Guide To Making A Girl Go Crazy In Love!

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Contrary to popular belief, learning how to drive a girl crazy for you really isn’t that difficult. You might not know this, but girls have actually been using special methods to drive guys crazy for centuries now, so who says guys can’t turn the tables around and use them on girls, as well?

As I have previously blogged, it’s quite easy to attract an unknown girl. And it’s even easier to make her go ga-ga over you if you know what you’re doing.

For centuries now, girls have challenged guys to prove to them that they are worthy of their time and show them why they are better than the other guys who might be running after them at the same time.

A lot of the time, girls do this by saying things like, “You’re not really my type. I prefer tall and good-looking guys with great careers. You just don’t fit my standards. However, if you run after me and compliment me for long enough, I may let you stick around for a few drinks.”

Want to know how to find a girlfriend as beautiful as this? It's easy if you know how!

Want to know how to find a girlfriend as beautiful as this? It’s easy if you know how!

This is so true, right? In a nutshell, girls get their kicks by trying to provoke guys into proving themselves as worthy suitors for them.

They get guys to try and measure up to their unrealistic and lofty expectations of what the perfect guy should be. Well, now is the time to turn things around for you and use similar methods to drive a girl crazy for you for a change. So, the next time you see an interesting girl in a bar, ask her something like, “You look fun. Are you?” Then pull her closer to you without warning. That, my friend, is Chef Jeff’s secret sauce when it comes to making women go crazy over you. :)

Using The Push-Pull Technique

Here’s something off the dating playbook bible that is http://FractionationSeduction.net. If she says something negative when you do this or pushes you away, just walk away and ignore her all night. If she tries to get your attention again, say something like, “Look. You had your chance earlier and you blew it, okay? I may give you a second chance if your kissing skills are up to par, though. Are they?” This is sure to drive a girl crazy for you in no time.

Your next move would simply be to lean closer to her so that she can kiss you with gusto or just wait for her to grab you and kiss you herself. Either way, you are sure to get kissed because this method is guaranteed to drive a girl crazy for you.

Now, if you want to move things up a notch, you have to create some sexual tension somehow. One easy way to do this would be by making the girl want to certify her qualities to you.

Every girl out there believes that they are good in bed, for example. Well, if you tell her that she isn’t a good kisser after she kisses you or if you casually comment that she doesn’t seem to know how to kiss a guy properly, she will want to prove you wrong as soon as possible.

You can even try and build up more sexual tension by asking, “You’re dressed like a girl looking for a good time, but how come you don’t come on strong in the sexual department? Why are you so repressed?” This is sure to make her feel like a prude and will make her want to prove you wrong. This is how easy it is to drive a girl crazy for you. And if you want more “firepower” in your seduction then be an alpha male – click here.

Like my advice? Hate it? Let me know!

-Jeff

Common Mistakes When Buying a Home – Tips From A Seasoned Chef!

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Alright, so I’ve been getting some really heated emails over my last blog post which you can read here. I understand that many people actually dislike the term “house flipping” because it implies speculative investments which borderline on being scammy. Fair enough.

So I am going to switch gears a little and now talk a little about mistakes that one can make when buying a home.

I know that this may sound weird coming from a Chef, but trust me – I have done enough property investments to be an authority in this field. Just like I am also an authority on dating and seducing women! (Saying that with my tongue firmly in my cheek…)

Common Mistakes When Buying a Home

Most homebuyers tend to commit common mistakes when buying a home. Don’t become one of them by preparing yourself and learning about these mistakes beforehand. Here are the most common mistakes when buying a home that you have to avoid:

1. Changing your financial position before closing the deal.

If you have already found the perfect house for you, but still have a month before your pre-qualified loan closes, you have to resist the urge to shop for a new car or new furniture within that month if you have plans of financing them. In fact, to ensure that your financial position stays the same before the loan is approved, you have to avoid doing anything to your finances to compromise that. New ratios might nullify your qualification altogether – remember that.

2. Forgetting extra expenses.

Once you become a homeowner, extra expenses are sure to pop up left and right. Suddenly, you have to start worrying about property taxes, repair fees, service fees and insurance, among other things; and these things can definitely become expensive. One of the most common mistakes when buying a home is forgetting that these extra expenses exist. Unfortunately, if you are caught off-guard, you might end up in intense debt because of them – especially if you aren’t prepared.

3. Falling in love and forgetting to think.

A lot of people fall in love with houses at first sight. However, you shouldn’t just let your heart take over your decisions when it comes to this. You need to ask yourself if the house will fit your budget and your family’s needs to a tee first. Remember: you have to buy a house that you need, not a house that you want. Ideally, you should look at several houses in the neighborhood to figure out whether the one that you like is a good deal. If it isn’t, then move on, no matter what your heart might be saying.

Buying a home is like attracting an unknown girl – it’s true!

4. Not doing a neighborhood check.

Another one of the most common mistakes when buying a home is not doing a neighborhood check during different times of the day and different days of the week. Make sure you scout the area well; find out more about the transportation facilities and schools nearby; and learn more about the amenities, zoning issues and crime levels before making your final decision. Online portals (such as PropertyForSale.com.my) often have good or bad neighborhood ratings which aid decisions on real estate investments.

5. Searching for a home alone.

Another one of the most common mistakes when buying a home is looking for and buying one alone. Buying a home is usually stressful and complicated, so don’t be afraid to hire several experts to help you out. Get help from a lawyer, a banker, an agent, a property inspector and a financial adviser, if possible, and make sure you have a good referral basis when it comes to them. Ideally, you should find a team that truly understands your financial limitations and your needs, yet still has your best interests at heart. Naturally, they will need to know all of the regulations and rules associated to real estate transactions, as well.

UPDATE: I’ve decided to revisit this blog post since I published it last month – and despite getting emails on readers of this blog disagreeing with me, I am still standing by what I have written here. Granted that I am no real estate investment expert, I am still profitable from my (mis)adventures in the property niche. I do have to agree that many of this tips do not apply when you are considering a luxury apartment for example. If you want tips on acquiring a KLCC condominium for example, then go to http://klcccondominiums.com.my and get specialist information on that topic.

Hope that helps!

Good luck!

-Jeff

Jeff’s Personal Thoughts – On House Flipping!

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OK, so  recently I have dabbled into property investment myself and started house clipping. It’s definitely out of my mainstays of cooking, dating and meditating, but it’s really interesting nevertheless. :)

My childhood home holds too much memories to be sold!

In a nutshell, house flipping refers to the process of buying a house and reselling it as quickly as possible in order to make a profit in the end. This process may look easy when you watch it on television or hear about it from other people, but the truth is that it can be quite hard to do. In fact, if you want to succeed when it comes to house flipping, you have to make sure that you know enough about the process before you jump into it to begin with. Here are several tips for you to follow and remember:

1. Choose a good location.

Naturally, you will have to choose a good location to buy a house in. After all, your location of choice will determine who your potential buyers are going to be in the end. Whether you want to buy a luxury home in a swanky neighborhood or a home in a town that is up and coming, the key would be to choose a location that is both bankable and desirable at the same time.

2. Choose a type of property to buy.

If you decide to buy a house that is in dire need of repairs, you have to make sure you set some money aside for those repairs. If you currently don’t have any money to spend on repairs, then you might want to look into cheaper undervalued houses from banks or foreclosures instead. These houses are generally more advisable if you aren’t ready to spend on repairs while house flipping just yet.

3. Set your budget.

It would be vital to know the exact amount of money that you can invest in a property before looking for one. If you want to make several repairs, it would make sense to ensure that your expenses are attainable and won’t make you fall into debt.

As with other business ventures out there, house flipping comes with several risks, including money loss. So, if you want to make sure you don’t lose a lot of money during this venture, here are several things you will need to avoid at all costs:

4. Agreeing to unrealistic offers.

Unrealistic offers basically refer to the ones that sound too good to actually be true. Properties with very low prices, for example, probably come with a catch. So, always make it a point to do some research on the property you are interested in and make sure you inspect it very carefully, as well. Some prime real estate, such as a KLCC condo located in the Kuala Lumpur City Center, will never be cheap.

5. Rushing things.

Patience is a virtue. Take your time looking at properties and wait for something that is meant for you to pop up. If you rush things, you might end up hiring too many people to help you out and just waste money because of it.

6. Relying on cheap workmanship.

If you plan on doing property repairs while house flipping, make sure you hire people who are reliable. If you can, pay for top quality repairs instead of low quality and cheap ones. This will ensure that you don’t spend more money on repairs in the long run.

If you need more information on this topic, check out this article on Time.com.

That’s it for house flipping! In my next blog post, I will share with you some secret lemon meringue recipes – handy when you are viewing your next property!

How To Attract An Unknown Girl

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If you are looking for a girlfriend, there are many things that you have to do in order to attract one. One of the best ways to attract an unknown girl is by being on your best behavior. It is important to look at yourself from the woman’s point of view. When you look at yourself from the woman’s point of view, you might find a lot of flaws. Even though it is hard to acknowledge your flaws, it is the only way to get better. The following paragraphs will teach you how to fix your flaws so that you will attract an unknown woman.

How To Attract An Unknown Girl

The first step to attracting an unknown girl is to smile a lot. Girls like it when men smile because they feel more comfortable around them. Even though you might not like smiling, it can really help your chances of attracting a woman. A girl will feel more comfortable to approach you if she thinks that you are light-hearted and fun. While a lot of guys find it hard to smile at first, they learn to do it naturally over time. Learn how to flirt with a girl by smiling warmly. There are a lot of guys that also have a better outlook once they start smiling more. This is just a side benefit, but it can really pay off in the end.

Another way to attract an unknown girl is to be confident. Girls do not like it when a guy can’t make up his mind. They view it as a sign of weakness. If you are not confident in yourself, definitely do not display it. Even if you aren’t confident, you need to act confident. Girls think that a confident man is a man that is ready to start dating. If you aren’t confident, girls will think that you are not emotionally ready for a relationship. Even though you might be ready for one, you need to give girls the right signs. If you want some tips on how to be confident then click here -

http://lifehacker.com/241611/7-tips-to-improve-your-confidence

A third way to attract an unknown girl is to be kind – in an alpha male way. Girls love it when men are kind because it helps them picture a long term relationship. Girls always want to have a long term relationship, so make sure that you are sending her the right signs. Make sure that you when you are out in public you are always considerate of other people. If you are at a crosswalk, don’t curse at a driver. There are probably a lot of girls watching what you do and you do not want to give them a bad impression.

The key to a girl’s heart is through comfort food!

Now that you know how to attract an unknown girl, you should be able to get a girlfriend in no time. Even though the flaws listed above might not seem like a big deal to you, they are very big deal to girls. Once you have improved the flaws listed above, women will see you as a viable candidate. Just remember that you could meet your future girlfriend anywhere, so always be on your best behavior. To behave well, use brainwave entrainment programs to calm your nerves.

Addendum: Flirting With An Unknown Girl

It’s widely believed that if you don’t know a girl then the best way to make her like you is to use this ever effective seduction device: flirting! Now in order to be a good flirt you will need to master both verbal and non-verbal communications. Watch old James Bond movies (not the newer ones with Daniel Craig) and you can learn heaps when it comes to flirting with women in order to seduce them.

The best flirts in the world know that body language is an essential component of flirting. In fact, it has been estimated that up to 90% of communications is non-verbal. Therefore, if you want to be good with women then it is important that you completely master the art of flirting with women.

To get you started, here are a couple of resources on flirting that will help you master the seduction game -

Hope that helps! In my next article, I will share with you some more practical dating tips and tricks that will help you improve your seduction skills… using some unique recipes that you’ll never see elsewhere!

-Jeff

Awesome Dating Methods That Work Like Magic

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A blog reader emailed to ask about clarification on the issue of “alpha male” in relationships in my previous blog post (if you have missed it, click here).

I have just started dating again, and boy it’s quite a steep learning curve for me. It’s no joke at all. Well, most guys tend to struggle when it comes to the affairs of the heart, and I am not an exception for sure! There’s also lots of information on dating and seduction online which is awesome. I did a quick Google and already found lots of websites which deal with relationships – notably the Fractionation website (http://www.fractionationseduction.net), Seduction Chronicle and also Fast Seduction. All super awesome stuff! I have learned lots about dating, love and relationships from these websites.

Simplicity Works Best

From my experience, the simplest dating and seduction tactics work the best. I got really confused when somebody emailed to ask me if I knew the “loopholes in female psychology” – and admittedly I got really baffled by the term itself. The fact that there are men who would “hack” into a female’s mind in order to make her feel attracted is simply mind blowing to me (pardon the pun).

I am also a fan of Dr Oz, and reading his articles on relationships makes me happy. Combining these tips with what I have learned from the Internet regarding dating and seducing women is most beneficial to me when it comes to taking my dating skills to the next level. Knowing how to seduce a woman is definitely an asset!

My close friend Ray has “educated” me in the need for pickup lines – I have in fact memorized a bunch of them so that I can use them when I meet a girl that I am interested in. My “day game” skills are getting better by the day for sure. My success rate when it comes to approaching women is about 30% – which is nothing to complain about. As they say, dating is a numbers game. I just need to approach enough women in order to find the special one to be my girlfriend.

Being “Special”

Learning a special skill is also essential when it comes to coming across as “high value” to women. I can play a mean guitar (I am deeply influenced by Buddy Guy, Jimi Hendrix and Kenny Lee), and I have been using that skill to serenade women. It is pretty effective – women like men who know music, and know how to play a music instrument. It’s awesome!

Finally, learning conversational skills is very important when it comes to knowing how to build rapport with women. Many guys have problems talking to women – they simply run out of interesting topics to talk about. In order to impress women, you will need to demonstrate your breadth and depth of knowledge. Read as much as you can. Intelligent guys are attractive – make no mistake about it!

That’s it for today’s blog post. In my next article, I will elaborate more on meditation music which I have previously talked about here. If you have any questions, feel free to email me!

How To Be The Alpha Male In Your Relationships

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I like to cook, and it means that I am an Alpha Male. Ya dig?

A lot of guys have been in a relationship where they aren’t the dominant partner. For many guys, having their girlfriend be in control is very annoying. Ultimately, a dominant female can cause a couple to breakup.

Picture of a pretty girlIf you have just gotten out of a relationship dominated by your girlfriend, you probably want to make sure it does not happen again. In order to prevent this kind of relationship from happening again, adhere to the advice given in the following paragraphs.

The Art of Relationship Domination

If you want to dominate a woman, you need to start dominating her from the beginning. As you’ve heard many times before, you only get one chance to make a first impression. Women are very perceptive and if they think that they can control you, they will. You need to come off as very confidence and strong willed when you first meet a girl. This way, the girl will know that you are the one in charge.

(Some may not agree with this analysis at all. For example, check out this piece by MSN – click here).

One of the reasons that a lot of men lose control in relationships is because they always let the girl make the decision. For example, many men will ask the girl where she would like to go for dinner. They do this because they think they are being considerate. While it is considerate to ask her where she wants to go for dinner, there are ways of being considerate and still showing that you are in charge. A good way to do this is to suggest a restaurant to go and then ask her if she would like to go there. This way, you are demonstrating that you are in control but value her input. If you like meditation music for example, share your favorite CD with her.

Over time, it will be easier to exert your dominance because she will be used to it. But at first, you have to be extremely careful of your actions. If the woman notices that she can control you, she will run away with her power. Over the years, she will exert her control in more areas of your life. This can grow out of control and lead to a lot of resentment. That’s why it is so important to establish a solid foundation.

If the woman knows that you are the dominant partner in the relationship, she won’t step out of line and tell you what to do. Even though it may be hard for you to exert your dominance in the beginning, it will pay off in the end.

In conclusion…

Since you now know how to dominate women, you will be much happier in your relationships. As long as you establish your dominance from the beginning, you shouldn’t have any problems being viewed as the primary decision maker in the relationship.

Over time you will discover that it is very easy to dominate women and that they only have to slightly change the way they behave around their girlfriend. Your girlfriend will like it when you are confident and you’ll like it because you will be considered the dominant partner in the relationship.

If you need more tips, techniques and tricks on how to improve your relationships with women, then check out this website:-

SeductionFAQ’s Guide On How To Pick Up Girls

I read the site a lot, and it gives me a lot of ideas on how to improve my dating and seduction skills. Highly recommended.

-Jeff